Sexuality. I finished last time by talking about the lovely female prison officer who most definitely liked my thigh high leather boots, enough to 'pat me down' at any given opportunity.
I can't say I minded it that much.
This isn't the first time a woman has displayed an interest in me, far from it! I get hit on by women pretty often, particularly in straight bars. Yet if I go to a gay bar, women ignore me like the plague.
So I often get asked if I'm straight or Bi. And the honest answer is, I can't answer that. On the surface, straight is the obvious one – romantically speaking, I've only been with men.
The problem is that I don't think of people in gender... any more than I think of people in race or colour.
"If I look at you
and a massive
bolt of lust runs
my pupils dilate"
If I like you, I like you.
If I find you attractive, I find you attractive.
If I look at you and a massive bolt of lust runs through me, my pupils dilate and my imagination runs riot, my breath quickens, my...
Well, you get the point ;-)
Thus far, I'm straight.
That's not to say I haven't found women attractive, or even had the occasional seriously erotic dream involving a woman.
Well, does that make me straight?
Bisexual? Bi-curious? There are so many descriptions and titles out there and it becomes a veritable minefield when you get Googling.
Does anyone ever really have such a definite idea about their sexuality?
Or are most people kind of fluid about the whole thing?
WHAT DO YOU THINK? (Comments below)
Till next time,