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5/27/2015

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In our previous post The Gimp Complex, we explored how our perception of hood-wearing seems ultimately connected to an image of violence, ignorance and fear. The confusion for many vanilla (non-kink) people and the thrill for many superverts seems to arise when the screamingly-striking visualisation of a leather, latex or stocking masked head makes the mind jump to a conclusion that non-consensual transgression is imminent:

Because, hey, that's what happens in films
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In reality, for most consensual kink-lovers it's simply part of their dress-up lifestyle,
de rigueur clubwear and
adult play.  And yes, without apology, they also like the freaky dark side look of it too. But why?

Well here now to explain this, meet some more latex-liberated kinksters for whom head encasement is not just a real-life passion, but also a positive and self-affirming realm of sensual and mental freedom, as we continue to illuminate and politely request you in this blog-post to ditch the fiction and...

FLING OUT THE GIMP

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Pic c/o JanFetishPix: Click to see the original at Hood-Lovers.com
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Rachel May, Web Designer & LateXtra Editor, Fetishist

"The first time I ever saw a hood was when I spotted Vanessa Upton on the cover of Skin Two Magazine. It looked very cool to me, like The Face or iD magazine cool.
Time passed and I only ever saw the cool people wearing hoods. The question now days is not "Why are you wearing a hood?" But: "Why aren't wearing a hood?"
Because fundamentally it is cool, like being part of an elite type of cool.

"The notion of 'physically-challenged' Americans have never been part of the question, for me anyway. I'd always associated hood wearing with colourful bright outfits, I guess because of House of Harlot, Kim Rub etc...

"When I met the man that introduced me to hoods, it went darker and had a closer association to BDSM this led to a kind of conditioning process whereby I always had to be hooded. I now therefore associate wearing hoods with having a really good time. I still get a sexual rush when I put one on, even if the moment is not necessarily a sexual one. I'd say Pulp Fiction is one of my all time favourite movies, but I still don't think of the gimp when I'm around hood wearers. Hood-wearing helps me transform from just being everyday me, into something extraordinary. Dressing up is incomplete without one.


"Perhaps I do roll my eyes when I see badly fitting masks, because that does give us more serious fetishists a bad name. A
t the very least it leaves hood-wearing for me with less of an artistic aesthetic."


PicturePicture c/o Soul Focus Studio: Click for Soulfocusstudio.net
SpikeyO, Fetish Journalist & Model, Fetishist

"At a recent family gathering my partner Rubberdude (after quite a few whiskies) decided it might be a good idea to share our rubber photo albums with my brother and sister-in-law. The intention I think was to try to persuade them to accompany us to a Torture Garden event. Their response was not one of admiration I can tell you, rather they retorted:

"We're not going out with you if you are wearing those weird black scary gimp masks!"

"Funnily enough, they seemed okay with our white doll style masks, as they identified with those as being Geisha-like. Just not anything black, as black equated 'gimp'. I sighed inwardly, weighing up whether to bother trying to explain to the uninitiated that a black latex hood isn't necessarily, in fact hardly ever is it, worn by a 'gimp'. I just hate the word gimp.

"Even if someone identifies themselves as a gimp I could never bring myself to use the word myself in anything other than a comical way. It's maybe a term more coined by the Fifty Shades brigade of people who are investigating kink but in my opinion still haven't really got a clue. Don't say 'gimp', try saying: submissive, dom/me, switch, kinkster, fetishist or hoodlover.
"

PicturePicture c/o Rankin: Click for Hood-Lovers.com
Miss Kim, Events Organiser & Promoter, Fetishist

"The word gimp, for me, was a made-up used in one of Quentin Tarantino's films. It makes me think of all those non-glam types of hoods: The kind with zips for mouths and detachable gags and eye-masks.

"In the world of our dedicated website
hood-lovers.com there are two types of shoots; ‘glam’ and ‘gimp’. We have sets of photos that I personally believe could only ever be described as glamorous. But then I would.

"There are others that would relate to the BDSM world. These hoods are sometimes inflatable, without eyes or with restricted airways in latex. Tightly laced leather ones too. These I would call the gimp style, for want of a better word. If fact, why don’t we Brits come up with our own term for this style of hood. Rename the gimp.
"

Kim runs a number of London fetish nights including:

Club Rub and the latex-only night Rubber Cult

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Fetish Forum

5/16/2015

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"Don't call it that", said the international fetish model.
– Call it what? Replied deaf me, with no mid-range for nightclub chats.

"Don't
call it a gimp mask!"
Shouted the international fetish model, slightly muffled by her latex hood and competing with some kind of new aural (albeit welcome) frenetic assault by the Chemical Brothers.

I  couldn't tell whether she was furious, laughing, or drunk.
Probably cross. Best to be safe as she was German and I didn't want to upset diplomatic and possibly, personal relations.
"I'm... was being facetious....erm... cheeky." I added to help hurdle the language barrier.

"What?! I know but..." She hesitated, "Uh, okay ...but every time I hear that it sends a shudder down my spine!"

This left me food for thought, for so many reasons.
I wasn't trying to be face-ist. I myself love a good hood, especially Rubber 55 ones, transparent Libidex ones and ones worn by the opposite sex.

I never thought 'gimp'.
It always seemed to me something in the way that the more objectified or mannikin a woman made herself, the more deliciously feminine she seemed to become: Almost as if my male imagination was attempting to assist her in escaping the restriction.

But not only does vanilla society's need to use the gimp label for comedy seem laughable, but the fetish scene's duplicitous & mixed feelings also fascinate me. BDSM thrives on the visually questionable and perverting it for a good time. I've heard gimp used a lot, in jest, fun, and public play. Perhaps, deliberately and mostly in humiliation play as a baiting insult.

What exactly then are we as kinkcredible superverts asking for?

Do we have some sort of self-reflecting mind-f*** going on?
Don't we want respect or understanding?
Or is it that we really want more perversion and enjoy blurring these facial lines?
Or is that the vanillas of this life are the ones with the issue?

These were questions I couldn't answer myself, so I called upon some fetish friends to help me further work out what I have come to neatly call, because it rhymes as well...

THE GIMP COMPLEX

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The dramatic use of masking in popular film and TV (here with David Carradine in Death Race 2000 (1975) is multi-faceted, creating an aura of fear, mystery, strength and for the discerning deviant, a weird sex appeal
PictureLady J Darkness: In Pulp Fiction the "hood-wearer is a non-consenting victim of violence."
Lady J Darkness, Writer, Dominatrix

"For the Tarantino generation, most outside of the fetish world have had little exposure to hood-wearing as a sexual practice beyond the introduction of the 'gimp' in Pulp Fiction. Here, the hood-wearer is a non-consenting victim of violence: This doesn't do much to bring people's awareness towards the positive explorations of hood-wearingbetween consenting adults in S/M practice.

"Perhaps it's time someone made a big budget movie that portrays this kind of practice in a sensitive and realistic way; by exploring the desires of those who enjoy having their identity altered through costume. It's not just those taking a sexually submissive role who like to wear hoods – it can give a further sense of empowerment to those in the dominant role." 


Jan FetishClubPix, Photographer, Dominant Extreme Fetishist


"The gimp word used to really piss me off, mostly because generally less well informed unsophisticated people on the scene thought wearing hoods was automatically a badge of submission.

"Before we had gimp mask, in the UK anyway, we had another name for a close-fitting black leather hood/mask, and that was a rapist mask. That was because of the mask supposedly worn by a serial offender known as the Cambridge Rapist, in the 1970s. Subsequently it was popularised by a t-shirt designed by Vivienne Westwood and sold by Malcolm MacLaren.

"The bottom line, is that it is much safer, as a dom, top, master etc, to be associated with gimps than with rapists. I think it sort casts hooded dominants in a vaguely 'Cenobite' mould (re: Clive Barker's Hellraiser), as if we have taken a little suffering upon ourselves just to be extra badass.The truth that we think it looks and feels lovely, is just too complicated for vanillas to process."

Jan adds: "Gimp is US slang for someone who is (literally physically) lame, but the word was virtually unknown in that context in the UK or Australia; so when non-American English audiences saw that scene in the movie Pulp Fiction, they connected the word gimp with the way the submissive character was dressed, instead of actually being verbally abused by a vulgar synonym for someone who is physically challenged. Everything in that scene came out of the imagination of a Tarantino's co-writer Roger Avery, and bears no credible relation to gay BDSM practices either."
PictureDolly Esther in red. Picture by Peter Czernich. Click for links to more of his work.
Dolly Esther, Fetish Model, Heteroflexible Latex Fetishist

"I go through life under an incognito status with regard to this subject. I have come across quite a number of people in the past with attitudes ranging from
a) amusement (sometimes ridicule)
b) a slight aversion
c) complete antipathy over people with anything considered sexually unorthodox.

"In a lot of cases in my formative years I usually sat quiet and hoped the conversation would take a different turn. These days I still do not make it common knowledge about my kinks down the proverbial 'boozer' if the conversation ever comes around again, but I just say something along the lines of "if people are not hurting anyone then where is the problem?".

"There was a guy I once knew who was very averse to them. He said he had come across a mail order catalogue with 'gimp masks' in, as he described. How and where he came across the catalogue was undefined, however he was so disgusted by them and attributed them to rapists, paedos and other undesirables of questionable sexual conduct. That was back in my teens... again I just sat quiet and hoped the conversation would take a different tack. I guess I am still in that incognito phase.

"Added to this the fact that I dolly up as a 'bird' and can be quite convincing to a few people, and anyone seeing my photographs would be very hard pressed to work out it was me. I think I quite enjoy that too. I guess I'll bimble along in my vanilla world as <name removed> and nillas would hopefully be none the wiser. I suppose I'm not really looking to set the world straight and stand up for 'Gimp Rights'. I just like to get me kink with it."

If you enjoyed this debate so far please leave a comment or Get in Touch with any similar outbursts of opinion. We will add them to our Fetish Forum on The Gimp Complex which, as we have had lots of feedback already, we will run for a couple more posts.


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Kink Media

5/16/2015

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Fetish Film Project: Get In Touch

We're happy to post about an exciting film project promoting positive kink... driven by a group of wunderkind students looking to explore our realm. Let's check out their notice first, written by one of the producers:
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The vibe they are going for is quite easy to visualise.
it sound very elegant. Their description is of "a James Joyce style walkthrough the city where we unravel different people and their views and perspective of Kink and BDSM in general, and hopefully we'll have a very immersive scene towards the end of the documentary in the dungeon if people are willing to play and show their kinks.

"We're hoping to speak to a wide range of people as well with vast variations of fetishes that are important to them. Aesthetically we're going for something very visually strong
and stimulating – in the vein of the Nick Cave bio 20000 Days On Earth – and we want a very sensory and moving experience for the audience, something that at the end makes them go "wow!", something that excites them and hopefully makes them question what they desire and their previous conceptions about the BDSM and kink world."

For contact details
please PM me.
(jackson.rocco@facebook.com) or try our Get In Touch page or speak to Skye at The Dungeon Bar @DungeonBar12a if you'd like to be interviewed or perhaps demo play. Pref. couples. Thank you. x


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A Touching Story

5/1/2015

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This week our columnist Nicky Ives feels her way out of the friendzone when a massage goes interstellar

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So, I kind of met someone.
Actually, I met him a couple of years ago
-- he's a good friend and goes to my church (hallelujah!). He's joined us on a family lunch out after church numerous times.
And come back to mine for a cuppa with me and the kids after.

And nothing ever happened.
I never let myself think of him like that.
Let's call him Jed.


Then one Sunday not so long ago, we were slumped on the sofa drinking tea.
Clearly, I know how to rock n roll.
My neck was really stiff and a massage was offered.


Holy. Fuckeroni.

Now, I'm a tactile person, always have been.
But Jed was a friend and I was getting seriously turned on from the start. So I focused on controlling my breathing, thinking it'll be over soon, I won't embarrass myself or him.
Clearly, it's just me having this reaction! 


Next thing I know my top is nearly off and he's lying on top of me.
Pounding my shoulders.
Have I mentioned before that a little bit of pain can be an incredible turn on?! 


Picture this.
I'm half naked lying face down on a leather sofa (mmmmmmm, leather) with an extremely fit man lying on top of me with his hands in my hair, breath on my neck, and elbows under my shoulder blades. 


I came instantly.
Not that he knew that. Until now.


I told him it would be a good time to stop if he wanted to, because I was starting (Ha!) to get turned on. It goes hazy at that point, but soon clothes were flying, nails grazing, teeth nipping, hands gripping...

Next thing I know, there are the heavy steps of a nine year old coming down the stairs. We freeze. "Shit! Where are my clothes?" I giggle.
I manage to pull a t-shirt on in time, Jed had his boxers.


Child opens the door. "Erm.... Mummy...." 

"Yes, darling?" I reply, as nonchalantly as possible:
As if I wasn't breathing heavily
top on inside out,
nipples standing at attention,
and hair like a few birds had nested in it.


"Look next to you"
I look at Jed, also breathing heavily,
in boxers and half in jeans,
magnificent torso on display,
back and shoulders covered in scratches.

(oops!)

"Yes, Jed was feeling a bit hot so he took his t-shirt off." 
I'm mortified. Somehow I don't think this will win me mother of the year.
"Mummy can I play Star Wars? Jed will you play Star Wars with me?"
I so wanted to make a comment about wielding lightsabers, but I just giggled instead. 

Jed soon went home, and came back later that night.
And that's a whole different story.

Rrrrrrrr. ;)


Nicky x


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